Make TIME for your kids!
Thursday, January 29, 2009 Posted by Felicia
Just tonight I was having a discussion with a friend at church about how the kids truly are different these days. There seems to be a total lack of respect among too many children now. I see it every day. Now, don't get me wrong, there are still plenty of wonderful kids out there. But, this brought up an important point: We have to spend REAL time with our kids!
Think about how many hours a day are spent on school, sports, the arts or other activities and then think about how much time you spend working on your child's character. Makes you pause doesn't it? Some people may say, "Well, I lead by example and that's enough," but let's be honest with ourselves, how much "good character" is beaming through us on a daily basis? Enough for your little one to pick up on how to share, be honest, be kind, or be respectful? Maybe...but...there has to be an extra concentrated effort on building moral character!
There are many teachable moments throughout your day (Your son is loyal to his friends, but when they cheat on a test does he tell?). We have to make sure that we are being available enough to our kids that we are able to pick up on these "teachable moments" so we can help guide them through. If we aren't spending REAL time...how will we ever know?
We can't sit back and let the school's character education program teach our kids! We have to be proactive and spend time working on these skills daily!
Here is a resource that will hopefully help to guide your though. It is a FREE newsletter called Life's Building Blocks Life Lessons Guide. It is here to help guide parents through some of the challenges that we all face. They have character and child development experts to provide current and applicable advice that every parent can use.
I hope you find the information useful and will share it with others who can benefit as well and enjoy the REAL time and "teachable moments" you spend with your children. They grow up way to fast!
January 29, 2009 6:30 AM
Great tips. I always make sure I spend time with my kids every day. I take time to play or snuggle with the little ones. And make sure I am talking with my oldest on a daily basis. Communicating with your children is very important. The best time for me to talk to my oldest daughter is when we are driving to school or home from school. It is about a 20 minute drive so that gives us just enough time to have a decent conversation. Great post!
January 29, 2009 7:25 AM
You are absolutely right. Those teachable moments should never be ignored!
January 29, 2009 8:27 AM
way too important....which helps me feel I have made the correct decision....by staying home....it's amazing parents think their kids don't want to hang out with them...but they really do....I know I did...and still do....
January 29, 2009 10:54 AM
That is definitely something to think about. I am going to link your post to my next one on the topic.
January 29, 2009 11:06 AM
Great post. I think a lot of people are so busy these days they miss out on the time with their children.
I love staying at home with my daughter and homeschooling. We do basic things, but it's so fun to see her learn and think.
January 29, 2009 12:25 PM
great article
keep up the good work http://www.lookwhatmomfound.com/2009/01/its-lemonade-award-time.html
January 29, 2009 5:21 PM
January 29, 2009 8:54 PM
Felicia, you are too adorable! ANd I could not agree with you more. It is those teachable moments that I particularly strive for each day...getting on their level, looking into their eyes..and hope to God that they are hearing me...lol, I know they are!